With the first real girlfriend, came the real experiences. My ex was very much into bondage, and we learned together. Often she would like to spend the weekend captured.

For the past five years or so, I have been taking on "assignments". Many of these have been ladies who have always been curious and just wish to try some love bondage out. I have also played with more experienced subs, both of us learning at the same time.

I have always dealt primarily in love bondage and kidnap type roleplays. Of course, often a game will just be a demonstration of different position and techniques, a "trying it out for size" if you like. Most assignments are non-sexual, just erotic games, which suits me fine.

Erotic Torment.....What ?

Erotic torment is making a captive's struggling work against them. The more they struggle, the more the stimulation. A particularly good technique is the crotchrope, a rope that goes between the legs, rubbing into the sensitive areas. Very effective ! Of course there as many ways as your imagination takes you.

My CV in Bondage

I have been interested in bondage for as many years as I can remember. As a child, I was always the one capturing the villains, enemies, whatever.

For years I studied Jui-Jitsu, along with Hojo-Jitsu, basically the martial art of immobilising a captured opponent. Used to look particularly forward to those classes ! If you would like to read more on Hojo, take a look on Jim Stewarts Page, I found it very well written.